52 dates // 50

tree hunting // a thousand threads
The date // Ghost town tree hunting.

In any regular year, we’d already have our tree. We’d have taken Austin to the tree farm weeks ago to fight over saws and carts with the other local families while waiting to pick the perfect tree from many perfect trees.

But then, this hasn’t been such a regular year… and somehow, like most things, our tree hunting experience came to represent our lives as they are now, and not so much as they were…

tree hunting // a thousand threads
After weeks of failed tries, attempts to make it a family occasion with too little time in the mix, we finally made it out to our usual tree farm on Sunday to find a ghost town.

The usual families, crawling all over every corner, snacking on cider donuts and picking out wreaths, were gone… but hey, it was easy to find a saw and a cart.

Even if it wasn’t so easy to find that perfect tree.

As we wandered the grounds, I found myself feeling for the trees left on the lot… the ones with holes and brown needles, with malformed trunks… too fat, too skinny, rejected by the swaths that came before…

tree hunting // a thousand threads
We walked and walked, searching for the perfect tree, wondering if they all were gone…

And soon, the two of us, there on the empty farm, just laughed.

Laughed at our muddy shoes, our miles walked, our search for not just the perfect, but the cheapest tree on the last day available….

Laughed at our predicament, Mark selling cars for scraps, both working our hands to the bone…

Laughed at how happy we are despite the hard year.

… and then we took home a sparse little Charlie Brown tree, because it was even more perfect than any tree that came before.

tree hunting // a thousand threads
… and I think it was meant to be ours.

24 merry days // a thousand threads24 merry days // a thousand threads24 merry days // a thousand threads


  1. Leanna
    Posted December 23, 2014 at 12:44 pm | Permalink

    Awe….it really needed you….I love you both

  2. Posted December 23, 2014 at 8:41 pm | Permalink

    Aww :’) Well, a sparse tree just leaves more space for decorations! I’ve never gone tree hunting before, because my family uses a fake one that you build. It’s always fun to put it together and unwrap ornaments though! -Audrey | Brunch at Audrey’s

  3. Posted December 27, 2014 at 5:23 pm | Permalink

    This is such a beautiful post, and a wonderful reflection on the past year. Wishing you lots of love and happiness in 2015.

  4. Posted December 31, 2014 at 8:34 am | Permalink

    ThIs is a really sweet post. Hope you had a wonderful holiday.

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