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Two Holidays (And a link of my own!)

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Almost St. Patrick’s Day! Do you have any big plans? We’re on our way to celebrate with friends, so I’m looking forward to plenty of Irish whiskey and inexplicably green goodies… although after another of this week’s holidays left me snacking on two different types of pie (pizza and lemon meringue — a girl has to celebrate) I should probably go light on the latter.

In addition to all of the lovely things I’ve been ogling on the web this week, I have to start by sharing a link of my own! Say hello to the newest columnist at The Everygirl. I’m so excited to be contributing to a brand new weekly roundup of the news, CliffsNotes-style — take a look and let me know what you think! And after you do… have a fantastic holiday weekend!! Drink some green beer for me.

Here are a few of my favorites this week…

Marais USA’s new collection, via Matchbook Mag.

Pretty florals from Tinge.

A fishing party from Bash, Please!

Stout cupcakes with chocolate-covered pretzels (and 33 more ways to cook with Guiness this weekend).

DIY gold foil tumblers.

This post from Emily that highlights her journey from beginning blogger to queen bee — happy five years!

At home with Amy Smilovic.

Sometimes it’s okay to take a mental health day.

Good blogs are weird. (Let your freak flag fly!)

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Do you worry about work vs. children?

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I’ve just started reading Sheryl Sandberg’s book, Lean In — and while I do love me a good feminist manifesto, I was particularly interested in this tome because of its focus on work-life balance (something I’ve touched on before).

The book has created a bit of a firestorm, but aside from the controversy, the central issue remains.  As a newlywed, thinking more and more about the choice to have a child, the question of work-life balance weighs heavily on me.

If you’ve yet to have a baby, do you worry like I do?  Or did you, prior to having a baby… and how have things worked out?  I see you quiet readers lurking out there… talk to me!

Photo via Bleubird (one of many mommas who inspire me every day).

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A Thousand Miles // Taking Time

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One-Mile Pace: 8:00
Long Run: 4 Miles
Weekly Mileage: 11 Miles

Wanna join me and share updates in the comments on your own progress?  Maybe even sign up for a race (even if it’s your first)?  It’s so much easier to stick to a plan when you have a community of support!

With running, as with most things in my life, I can be a little impatient.  So when I start a new training program, I can occasionally over-reach.  The problem is that I can rarely admit it, and usually my over-reach turns into a little bit of a disconnect between what I think I’m doing (what’s written on my plan) and what I’m actually doing (absolutely nothing like that).

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My New Name

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This weekend I’m off about town to finally tackle my name change. In practice, the whole thing was done long ago… I’ve even started to get used to introducing myself. But when I pull out my license or write a check, I still have to revert back, and it’s all really kind of a mess.

I’ve waited so long because little did I know, getting ahold of our marriage certificate would take two months on its own, since I had to have it mailed from California. Naturally, I also had to send my *request* for the darn thing by mail (to be carried on horseback across the plains, I assume… possibly by Kevin Costner).

So at this point I’m sure you can imagine my excitement to finally have the chance to get this done… even if it does mean that I have to go to each place – social security, DMV, etc – individually and hand them my certificate so they can send it by carrier pigeon into the abyss.

I’m hoping to have it all done by the time I have to travel in May, but I’m not holding my breath. Have you all had experience with this process? It’s so much crazier than I would have ever imagined!

Here are a few of my favorites this week… I hope you all have a wonderful weekend! Keep your fingers crossed for me that all goes smoothly.

This whole line via Honey Kennedy.

This cream cheese pound cake.

This warm wintery dinner party from Sunday Suppers.

Handwritten Easter eggs.

Loving the idea of a flower crown over a drop veil — such a pretty DIY.

Obama’s “Jedi mind meld.”

Will you read Sheryl Sandberg’s book?

Salted caramel shortbread gets me every time.

Being a speaking creative.

So many things about this story.

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Snow Day

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That’s it — the last gasp of winter. Unfortunately yesterday’s snow day wasn’t quite like this. I guess we were expecting a little too much from snow in March (Austin was just a little guy in these shots — he’s almost 7 now! — and we’ve barely had another good snow since).

I know I complain a lot about the cold, but there’s something about a really good snow day that you can’t help but love. Even though yesterday wasn’t ideal — no playing or building snowmen in that wet mushy stuff — Mark and I made the best of our day off and whipped up some warm soup and homemade cookies, then curled up for an evening movie and a glass of wine. Even if the snow let us down, the day definitely did not.

Maybe next winter we’ll have another big one… but for now, I can’t say I’m all that sad.  It’s past time to start warming up!

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Muscles and Marathons

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And by marathons, I mean the television variety.  There is one really great thing to be said about a day home sick, and that’s making it through the entire first season of Downton Abbey.  I know I’m way late to this train, but I have to say I’m thoroughly hooked.  Are you watching?

This weekend we’re headed to Ohio for the Arnold (as in Schwarzenegger) Classic.  Mark has wanted to go as long as I’ve known him but we’ve never been able to make it.  I don’t suppose you all have any recommendations for what else to see in Columbus?  I’d love to hear them if you do.

Have a lovely weekend!  Here are a few things I’m loving this week…

This beautiful arrangement.

This invitation suite and its lovely color palette.

This vegan clutch on etsy.

This roundup of the best ways to wear a pop of color now.

Bit obsessed with Jennifer Lawrence after this. And did you see this? How great is she?

This amazing photo project.

Maintaining and growing a small blog with pride.

Bringing coffee to DC.

Do you know about Mealku? What a great idea!

Homemade everything bagels.

Gin and tonic sorbet.

 

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On Never Giving Up

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Mark and I almost never do gifts on Valentines Day… we have a fantastic dinner and tell each other how crazy happy the other one makes us, and then we go home and curl up with our little dog, just like every other night.

But this year he surprised me and came home with two shiny, not at all new records (vinyl I mean… the good stuff). He knows how obsessed I am with their sound and how much I want to build our collection, but because life is busy I’ve barely gotten a start… so that sweet sweet man who knows me so well brought me two albums from two of my very favorites… Bob Dylan and Freddie Mercury. The boys are an offbeat pair, but to me… they are perfection. I’ve been listening to the two albums over and over since and on vinyl my god those voices… they really do shine.

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A Thousand Miles // The Things I Don’t Share

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A Thousand Threads is a wedding and lifestyle blog, but at its core, it’s really just about me (I’m selfish that way). I share the things I love and the things I do… but there are a couple of big pieces of me that I usually leave out.

The first is my political side, because honestly, I get plenty of that at work. I came to blogging to have a chance to write about the other things, and to learn about how to write about the other things. So, for now at least, I’m keeping those two apart.

The second is my love of running. But, to tell you the truth, I’m really not sure why I’ve left this one out. It’s a huge part of my life. Waking up early (forcing myself out of bed), training a little longer, running a little faster… chasing a distant goal. I love the stuff like crazy… but for some reason I’m not sharing it with all of you.

The thing is that, until now, I haven’t quite felt that it fit. But when I think about it, a part of that feels so wrong.

It feels wrong because even though this is a blog about weddings and fashion and food… loving those things doesn’t automatically negate the rest. But, as a rule… it does. It’s so rare that we let the two mix.

I would love to know more about my favorite lifestyle bloggers’ other interests. I’m sure there are a few that would surprise me! I’m so inspired by the perfect little families, the beautiful homes, the gorgeous clothes… but what do they do when they just want to let it all go… to slip away and de-stress? It’s not quite the things I’m afraid to tell you – it’s more like the things I just… don’t.

But why doesn’t it fit? After all, it’s me. If I had the option to do nothing else, I would run and bake, run and bake… write it all down and then start all over again. (I might have a horse too, but that’s a given — one of these days I promise I’ll tell you all about my rodeo queen past.) There is nothing else in the world that I love to do more than those things. They are the moments that feed my soul.

So here I go. I’m going to start to share. It’s probably a more personal part of me than I’ve shown in the past, because running really is my escape… my chance to clear my brain, to block out the noise and just go… it’s the place where I’ve found the answers to my most pressing questions, and the inspiration for my favorite plans. It’s not just a running thing… but it is my thing.

It’s the thing that works for me.

So what about you? Do you have something you do to escape and de-stress? Is it something I would guess, or is it way out of left field? We all have something.

Photo from my very first marathon in Philly.

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Caught Somewhere In Between

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♪♪ “One of these things…” ♪

I didn’t intend for it to be this way, really, it just happened… but, clearly, one of these things is not like the other (thanks Big Bird).  This time of the year feels so stunted, stuck somewhere in between the winter and the spring… still too cold to lounge outside in the sun, but so close you can taste it?

My brain doesn’t know which way to go, but I do have to admit that one thing getting me through these last few weeks of winter is definitely the excitement of awards season.  Can you barely wait for the Oscars this Sunday?  Who do you think will win big?

I can’t wait to curl up in a nice big blanket with one of the last toasty warm drinks of winter to watch.

Here are a few things I’m loving this week, both warm and cold…

These gorgeous wool hats.

A constant source of inspiration, these two.

I’m fascinated by this tasty looking gin & tarragon cocktail.

Jose Villa, maybe you’ve heard of him? The hasselblad gets me every time.

This furniture I’m coveting.

This amazing little pep talk.

Elvis Costello and the Roots (!!).

This spicy grapefruit margarita (so many good drinks this week… I think the rest of you are with me here on this sunshine thing).

And, in honor of the Oscars, this awesome movie mashup.

… and 10 best picture winners that should have lost (what do you think? do you agree?).

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// 2.20

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Eye // This 19th century grange/my dream home.
Buy // Everlane silk shirts.
Make // A DIY feather wreath.
Bake // An orange cardamom yogurt cake.

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